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Daily Insights

Daily Insights are insightful truths about reality that empower us to transform our way of thinking.

They are often challenging, and give us the coaching and courage to behave in a way we might never have thought of. They’re great to dwell on and remind ourselves of throughout the day.

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Give them space

Give them space – mum and dad don’t actually get home from a demanding job until at least ten minutes after their body walks through the door.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 109)

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Trauma in childhood

No, your husband/wife isn’t a child, but there may still be a child within him/her, because trauma in childhood always arrests some emotional development.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 108)

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Are you in a ‘pretend’ agreement?

Are you in a ‘pretend’ agreement? If you move to redefine your personal boundaries, you must risk a loved ones’ rejection, and your own fear of separation.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 107)

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Only a secure person can empower others

Only a secure person can empower others. Those who have to remain in control can never let go long enough to allow others to make mistakes and learn from them.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 106)

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Blame-shifting to avoid accepting responsibility

Blame-shifting to avoid accepting responsibility has a very high price, for to successfully blame others is also to dis-empower yourself.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 105)

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