If you represent authority or God in your work, you’ll be the object of projection whatever you do. Don’t take their reactions so personally – it’s not about you at all.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 72)
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If you represent authority
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Making appointments
Making appointments to spend time with your spouse is not the death of spontaneity, but a pre-cursor to an enriched relationship.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 71)
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To marry
To marry, first find someone who is like you. To remain married, discover that she/he need not be quite like you at all, and learn how to enjoy the differences.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 70)
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Tactical separation
Is there ever a time when leaving one’s spouse may in fact be the most loving thing one can do? ‘Tactical separation’ is a vital part of a Marital Counsellors’ tool box.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 69)
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Individuation
Individuation protects sovereignty. When a child unquestioningly honours a dishonourable parent, then in adulthood that child will also become dishonourable.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 68)
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