If you won’t make decisions, don’t complain when others make them for you. No decision becomes a decision by default. You can’t stay innocent by this method any longer.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 87)
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If you won’t make decisions
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Defences frightened people resort to
‘Blowing up’, ‘clamming up’ or ‘sidetracking the issue’ are all defences frightened people resort to. They will need more insight before they can come into honesty.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 86)
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To stop isolating myself
To stop isolating myself, I should assume that other people like me unless they tell me otherwise. In this way we avoid vain imaginings.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 85)
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If you don’t know where or how to set a boundary
If you don’t know where or how to set a boundary, you’ll have no choice but to build a wall. Get some help with your confronting skills.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 84)
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Restitution precedes restoration
Restitution precedes restoration. Who wants to pretend everything between you is fine when in reality it’s not? Remind them that they can’t paint over the rot.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 83)
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