If you won’t make decisions, don’t complain when others make them for you. No decision becomes a decision by default. You can’t stay innocent by this method any longer.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 87)
If you won’t make decisions, don’t complain when others make them for you. No decision becomes a decision by default. You can’t stay innocent by this method any longer.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 87)
‘Blowing up’, ‘clamming up’ or ‘sidetracking the issue’ are all defences frightened people resort to. They will need more insight before they can come into honesty.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 86)
To stop isolating myself, I should assume that other people like me unless they tell me otherwise. In this way we avoid vain imaginings.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 85)
If you don’t know where or how to set a boundary, you’ll have no choice but to build a wall. Get some help with your confronting skills.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 84)
Restitution precedes restoration. Who wants to pretend everything between you is fine when in reality it’s not? Remind them that they can’t paint over the rot.
© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 83)