Premarital advice: In order to glue two surfaces, first ensure both are as clean as possible. Echoes, unbearable feelings, soul-ties and family roles must be first of all to be inspected.
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Don’t make unilateral decisions
Don’t make unilateral decisions which also concern your spouse. To move together, you must also decide together, or you’ll slide into a pretend agreement, followed by resentment.
As long as you are alive
As long as you are alive, it’s never too late to spend time with your family. Strengthen those eternal ties by making another memory whenever you can.
Give them space
Give them space – mum and dad don’t actually get home from a demanding job until at least ten minutes after their body walks through the door.
Trauma in childhood
No, your husband/wife isn’t a child, but there may still be a child within him/her, because trauma in childhood always arrests some emotional development.