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Daily Insights

Daily Insights are insightful truths about reality that empower us to transform our way of thinking.

They are often challenging, and give us the coaching and courage to behave in a way we might never have thought of. They’re great to dwell on and remind ourselves of throughout the day.

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The cycle of ‘attack and defend’

Only a secure person can break the cycle of ‘attack and defend’, and avoid the ‘escalation of retaliation’.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 135)

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The partner who has to retaliate

The partner who simply has to retaliate is usually the most insecure of the two. They have left their worth in others’ hands and must fight to ‘save face’.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 134)

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A person who is too insecure to yield

A person who is too insecure to yield his own way is always going to feel ‘dominated’ or ‘nagged’ whenever he is corrected or instructed.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 133)

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Every marriage goes through gear-shifts

She can live with him on his terms for only so long, then she’ll need to move the goal posts just to survive. Every marriage goes through gear-shifts to continue.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 132)

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If you love them

If you love them, you will not shrink back from rebuking them, but rather will try to restrict their wrong-doing. If you must oppose them at all, do it promptly.

© Copyright D. Riddell, 2012
Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 131)

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